SELECTION PROCESS

Do not belittle the selection process in a forever relationship as this will lead you to a great disaster. Your success in life here and here after depends on this.
A prayerful preparation prevents poor performance in every area of life endeavour.
Building a godly home is not exceptional it requires prayerful, careful preparation and thoughtful study of the Architect’s design.

As an intending builder of a forever relationship you should consult God your maker the Architect of marriage before choosing a life partner.
Ask God his plan and choice for your life. He knows the end of your life. A marriage that starts with God and continues with Him will continue enjoy the presence and provision of God. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and turn away from evil” [Proverbs 3:5-7].

Keep God out of your forever relationship and feel that you can start the process without Him make you doomed for failure, heartache, frustration, disappointment and divorce.
Your forever relationship is safe and protected from problems that destroy families if you allow God in your marriage plan.

SEX IN MARRIAGE PART 2

Sex in all its beauty and pleasure was created by God to be enjoyed by husband and wife. Because sex feels good, instead of husband and wife making love because they love each other in marriage, man has corrupted and cheapened it as lust for lust’s sake. Yet still, as at the beginning the bible says, “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage [ Sexual Intercourse] bed be undifilled, for fornicators and adulterers God will judge” [ Heb.13 : 4 ].



Undefiled always is the “bed”, but it can be defiled by sexual unfaithfulness.
Created by God to be enjoyed by husband and wife in marriage is sex. The poorest couples along with the richest couples alike can have one of the great engagement of life. Unlike female animals, women were created to be able to enjoy sex most of the time.


In marriage, to selfishly leave one partner unfulfilled is not giving that partner his or her rights.

In God's sight not giving your spouse sexual fulfillment is " defrauding " him or her.

Sex union should be the normal climax of endearing words, fondling, love – play and mutual devotional.
The love – making and mating of husband and wife is as normal and blameless as eating and sleeping, working and playing.


Sex relations between husband and wife are normal, beautiful, good and have not only the permission, but the blessing of God.

Three Dimensions Of Love

Eros, Philia, and Agape are the three Greek words used to explain love. Though distinct, yet they are interrelated. Marriage relationship is designed by God to be a forever relationship. In a forever relationship each of the three types of love has its own significant place.

Eros

Eros is love based on the physical process and borne out of carnal desire or strong attachment with sexual attraction. Eros is based on gratification, which is usually selfish and which collapses as soon as the desire is achieved e.g boyfriend and girl friend relationship and sexual love between husband and wife.
Eros or romantic love is a pleasurable learned response to the way your partner looks and feels, to things your partner says and does, and to the emotional experiences you share.
In your marriage built romantic love by thinking about your partner, concentrating on positive experiences pleasures cut of the past and then daydreaming, anticipating future pleasure with your mate.

Philia


Philia love is based on the emotional process. This is love one feels for a cherished friend of either sex. It exists between brothers and sisters [siblings of the same parents, parents and children and among friends]. It is borne out of common experiences, goals or bonding. It is a selective love, based on qualities in another person that one finds admirable, attractive, and appealing.

Agape


This is love based on the spiritual process. It is God’s type of love; sacrificial and unselfish. It is unmerited and unconditional love. It is God’s way of loving. Agape love gives without measuring the cost or seeking personal advantage.
The principles of Agape love, operating in a , can answer every forever relationship need, solve every problem, and show us the way to regions of joy unending.
To form a forever relationship, you need a love centered-marriage. Marital love has to do with senses of man i.e sight, touch, smell and hearing.
To bend very well in a forever relationship is the experiences of a sexual attraction dmiration affection, respect, compatibility, compassion and towards your partner.

The Institution Of Marriage!

Marriage relationship is a forever relationship. By its very nature, marriage is intended to be a life time relationship.





" And the Lord God said, it is not good that the man should be alone ; I will make an help meet for him. " [ Gen. 2 : 18 ]





With these words God set forth a fundamental and basic fact of the human family. Inherent in man's creation is his need of a mate.


Man is a social creature. God ordained the institution of marriage and it applies to the whole human race. God has instituted for all mankind the joy and pleasure of marriage .


All the relationships of the human family - sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, nephews, nieces, cousins, and so forth comes from the institution of marriage.

God designed marriage as a refuge for times when everything is going wrong in the world. when people don't like you or when you're facing problems. Ideally, your forever [marriage] partner is someone who loves you and cares for you regardless of what is going on around you or what you are going through. To help you solve your problems and provide security in a world that is constantly changing is your partner.

Marriage is only as good as the degree to which the couple is wiling to work at it. Good marriages and families need working at, and it take time. Good family relationship do not fall out of the sky. You have to build a good family like any other building programme, that means hard work and commitment to see the project finished. In the same way, marriages and family life have to be fashioned according to the specifications laid down by the maker. They are found in His book, the Bible. No matter how bad these relationship may be now, they can change if you are willing to follow God's instructions.

Marriage by its very nature is intended to be a lifetime relationship. The permanency of this relationship was attested by the words of Jesus, " Therefore what God hath joined together, let no man put asunder".'[Matt 19 : 6]

Welcome To My Blog

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